Dear Shiekh Shoib

Salamaalikum

I read your blog and I got your phone number from xxx.

Two things are hurting me very bad.

1)None of our arab leaders are doing anything.

2)My MSA Group has people from xxx (country names withheld) and blaming the Palestinians for everything. Walahi we are being hurt by the enemy and we are being hurt by our own.

For the first time I did not pray Zuhar salah. I don’t feel like being a Muslim anymore. When can I call you please help. I am very broken right now.

A: Walaikumsalam, 

We hope this message finds you in peace. The ongoing situation deeply challenges human dignity, drawing some closer to Allah, and others closer to that which is most vile. Alhamdulillah, you are seeking closeness to the Most Kind.

In these trying times, it’s essential to turn to Allah (SWT) with sincerity. Staying strong is vital for your mental and spiritual well-being, and together, we can support one another through these hardships. Overcoming this ordeal is a struggle with its own rewards, something beloved by Allah (SWT) and loathed by Satan.

Inshallah, we can move forward by considering the following ways. Remember, a strong Muslim is not only one with physical strength but one who possesses a strong moral compass and unwavering Eman.

Here are some Do’s:

1. Believe with all your faith and accept that Allah is the Most Merciful and Most Compassionate. In times of weakness, turn to Allah (SWT) in prayer and supplication. The Quran tells us that with hardship there comes relief (94:6). Know that things will become easy for all, including you!
2. The Quran teaches us the importance of patience in difficult times. Reflect on 2:155-157 that emphasizes patience. Know that facing challenges is a test and your patience with prayer leads to immense rewards. This is the prophetic way.
3. Lean on your community, family and friends if they are available, and if whenever possible, you helping them would be more rewarding. The least you can do is go to Musjid that is close to you. Rasool (SAW) stressed the significance of a supportive community.
4. Engage in acts of kindness, charity and helping others. The Hadith reminds us of the value of such actions, even if they are as simple as a charitable gesture. it can bring that Mercy of Allah (SWT) and reduce punishments.
5. Reflect on the hardships the Rasool (SAW) and use the examples of how He (SAW) and His (SAW) family endured every challenge. His (SAW) life is a powerful example of strength, patience, and trust in Allah’s guidance.
6. Engage in Dhikr, the remembrance of Allah. Recite phrases like “SubhanAllah” (Glory be to Allah) and “Hasbiyallahu la ilaha illa Huwa” (Allah is Sufficient for me; there is no deity except Him). These words read with sincerity can provide you with inner peace and strength.
7. Even in challenging times, continue to be grateful for the blessings you have. Gratitude brings contentment and gives strength.
8. If your concerns, pain and emotions cannot be controlled, please never hesitate to seek professional help. Even if it means going to a clinic to have yourself checked, do so. A small tlak can talk you a long way, Insha’Allah.
9. Remember that you are not alone and seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Allah Certainly Knows Best.