Q: Assalamo alaikum.
Janab. Me 1 shakhs ko pasand karti hu.. aur wo bhi.. hum dono hi nikah karna chahte hai humare walidain ki razamandi se.. bhot naik dindar insan hain wo .. isliye mujhe pasand h.. hum bhot compatible hain.. me achhi talim yafta ladki hu. Lekin koi job nhi karti.. haa  namaz  pabandi se padhti hu.. ab inke ghar wale mana kar rhe hai.. kyu k unhe koi apne status ki ladki chahiye. Rich. Jo koi achha job karti ho.. doctor  engineer.. etc.. ho.. ab me inme se nhi hoon.. mere walidain razi hai milne ko .. k agar munasib hai to unhe nikah se aitraz nhi h..uus shakhs ne mujhse nikah ka wada kiya h.. to kya wo wada nibhane ka paband hai.. ? Aur agar wo isliye apne maa baap ko razi karane ki koshish karta h to ye kya sahi h.. ? Unae walidain ka inkar kya sahi h?

Time: September 19, 2015 at 3:20 AM

A: Walaikumsalam,

If both of you can be protected from zina (adultery), then in such an instance, it may prove best that you both go your separate ways. If you both feel that you would do something incorrect, than go to a local religious body and ask them to get both of you married.

Marriages in which one set of parents agree and another does not,  generally become an uphill struggle. This often takes away the pleasure of marriage. Marriage should come with blessings, nor curses.

Under an ideal situation, marry that person whom you and your parents are happy with, and her as well as her parents are also happy with.

Think of your future in a manner that shows precaution.

Allah Certainly Knows Best.