Q: I got 20 tola of gold jewelry for my haqq mehr. I would like to sell it and give the money to my brother for a bussiness he wants to open. My husband tells me no. Can i sell it?

A: Haqq Mehr given to you belongs to you. As a result, although you can sell it and give/loan the money to your brother, you should also use your Allah (SWT) given intellect to not involve yourself in doing things that would create an internal conflict that can result in  a devastating outcome within your marriage.

Allah Certainly Knows Best.