Q:  Assalamu’alaikum, i really need help.. i had spoken to about 3 alimahs before regarding breaking my wudhu due to wind as i tend to have a lot of acid in my body.. also i get vaginal dicharge in every salah so the alimah said i am a mazur. but lately i think there have been times when i have not got wind or discharge so basically i don’t know myself if it is during every namaz now, i asked the aalimah and told her this and she said that i am still a mazur until the problem completly goes away.. on some days i am aware that i have broken my wudhu due to wind on 2 or 3 namaz during the day and on other days i only remember breaking it in one namaz.. before i could remember that it was during every salah but am not sure now as i do wudhu anyways for every namaz so i probally don’t notice now as the alimah said just do wudhu for every namaz and it would be ok. so i do wudhu for every namaz as in some namaz i have the acid issue or i break wind during wudhu, i then don’t know whether to start again with my wudhu..am i still a mazur?

i also can not pray in peace due to having regular trips to the toilet. i do go toilet but even after i would feel like i need to go again. when i pray i feel like i will leak or that i have leaked a tiny bit. but i get discharge sometimes so i feel like may be the urine is mixed a little with it so i can’t tell if urine has exited. this is bothering me soo much as for every namaz i clean myself incase of any discharge or urine which may have leaked.. i try not to go toilet for every namaz now as i need to learn to hold it in so i constantly feel like i always need to go to the toilet and even if i do go to the toilet before namaz i will end up having the problem below..

last of all, i have a really bad embarrassing problem which i don\’t know how it occured. seems like i have http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Persistent_genital_arousal_disorder. everytime i go to clean my vagina area from any vaginal discharge, i find it hard because if i even touch my skin there, this tingly feeling comes like as if am in a sexual activity. i don\’t do sexual things and am not interested in these things. it started from last year,  before last ramzan if i even sat down or sat in a bus or car, the tingly feeling would be soo bad like as if i was aiming for an orgasm in a sexual activity, Astugfirullah for all of this but that’s what it feels like and i didnt understand what to do, when  i pray namaz i put a little bit of tissue in vagina area to try and block any substance discharge from occuring due to the feeling. the aalimah said i can do wudhu for every namaz due to normal vaginal discharge which is ok but then i explained that i have this embarrassing problem and soemtimes when am praying or move, then this feeling comes and am not sure of any substance comes during praying. i can not pray in peace as i feel like i have leaked. i tend to rush in praying. and it takes me ages to clean in the toilet or have a bath because when i touch genitial area it goes soo tingly that i feel like substance came out so i keep repeating myself to clean but get no wer with it. i waste soo much time that every body in the house is fed up as am the only one who is in the toilet. i understand if am a mazur, i managed ok by doing wudhu for every namaz and just wearing panti liners for any discharge which may exit during salah but due to this sexual arousal feeling i cant seem to get on with life. its affecting me soo bad. my attendance is going low in college and i havnt been attending as i know i will struggle to do wudhu and pray properly with out getting paranoid and it will end up taking too much time. if i could keep my wudhu for atleast 2 namaz it would of helped.. also as my mum has got the bathroom done and got this toilet which the seat is soo thin andf the toilet is low so it feels like that when urinating all the splashed are comming back on me. i therefore hardly drink any watser or go to the toilet and when u do in the morning i end up having a bath after to clean my self properly as its affected my soo bad, i cant even use public toilet anymore but even if i did keeo going toilet for every namaz which would be better but then ut would take me time to get ready for namaz and to do wudhu etc.. doctors cant see anything wrong but i do seem to have a bladder problem.. i have physical and psychological issues and didnot know who to ask as it’s embarrasing and dfferent scholars tend to say differnt things..

my whole day seems to go on making wudhu and praying. my mums soo fed up, i can’t tell her my embaraasing issue and still she complains in front of every 1 at home. i feel like leaving the house somwhere and getting my own flat where i can bath and do wudhu with rushing because of others.. i feel like my namaz havnt been getting accepted. also last few weeks iv been getting like wet dreams like every day and i have to do gusal i don’t watch inappropriate things like this. i wont always have time to do gusal especially when i got to go college in the morning.. i know you may say fast or get married but i dont think marriage will happen yet and this got worse during ramzan, fasting didnt calm it down as this seems to be a disorder..

please help me somehow asap, my needs are different to others..

Time: Tuesday February 28, 2012 at 2:05 pm

A: Walaikumsalam,

Dear sister, your issue has been resolved by a question as well as an answer session between you and other female scholars. I shall allow their answer to stand, unless one can prove otherwise.

• Your issue runs deeper. Shaytan is playing games with you. He has placed waswasa (satanic whispers and ideas) into your head and mind).
• You need the help of a good caring psychologist that understands (y)our religion and culture.
• Read up on how to eliminate obsessive compulsive disorders and other related non-positive behaviors. You also have other adult related ideas and issues that run deeper than the answer I can share. Your issues may take a while to overcome, however, if you start seeking assistance from the correct place(s), insha-Allah your matter(s) could well be resolved.

The above may seem trivial and evasive. This is not my intention.  Read my above suggestion with an open mind and with the vision of seeking a resolution from the side of Allah (swt).  Allah (swt) helps those that search. I sincerely thank you for your question.  May Allah make matters easy for you, ameen.

Allah Certainly Knows Best.