Q. Newly married…. how do we remain satisfied in our relationship and not havethings it puff up in our faces… (newlymarriedcouple)
Answer: from the Quran and Hadith, we derive the best advice.
- Practice good clean humor
- Never get into the blame game
- Never take anything for granted
- Avoid talking about 3rd parties (unnecessarily!)
- Learn to forgive. (This does not mean we must forget)
- Learn to practice silence, more so, when things get heated, angered, etc
- Speak only when necessary. Listen more, talk less. We have two ears and one tongue for a reason
If the above seems impossible for you at any point, then immediately seek 3rd party professional assistance to help remedy your situation.
Allah Certainly Knows Best.