Q: We have a brother that is extremely argumentative, he wants proof for everything. What do we do with such people? This morning at fajr the Imaam read a hadith he started asking random questions and seeking proof and messed everyones mood what do we do with him?
A: If he is a genuine and certified student of knowledge, he may be seeking clarifications. In such a case, he should be encouraged to attend the office hours of the local sheikh or imam for more in-depth discussions. However, if he is not a student of the Deen and is simply asking random questions, he should be educated on the appropriate manner to ask questions in a public setting.
If the imam is merely reading from a book, the individual should be advised to contact the author or seek guidance from someone qualified in that field. Not everyone who reads a book is necessarily qualified to answer all questions related to its content.
Engaging in arguments with him, especially within the mosque, may inadvertently strengthen his misguided beliefs if he lacks the proper knowledge and understanding of the Deen. It’s essential to maintain a respectful and conducive environment within the mosque.
Please share this response with him and ask him to ponder the meaning of the Quranic verse that encourages us to “argue with them with goodness.” If we are expected to engage in debates with non-Muslims with kindness and respect, it becomes even more crucial to promote this approach when dealing with fellow Muslims. Familiarizing himself with this Quranic guidance may help him better understand the importance of respectful dialogue and seeking knowledge.
Allah certainly knows best.
P.S. I went to do a post and saw your inquiry from January 2023, my apologies for the delay