Q. How is khla defined? I accepted the khula. I regret it.  If I give it back are we remarried? Would i have to remarry someone else before I marry my ex again?

A. Khula is when a woman gives x (e.g. Her mehr) in exchange of y (divorce) in a given majlis (gathering-sitting.) Upon the husbands acceptance of x (e.g. mehr), khula would have said to be taken place. It would be in the category of one Talaq-e-baain. This is also known as an irrevocable divorce. The nikah is thus over. You would have to sit through what is known as the iddah period. If during this iddah period you both wish to get re-married, then a new nikah would have to be performed with a new mehr.

Based on what you have descried, there would not be a need for you to marry another man before marrying the man you have gotten your Talaq-e-baain from. Just do a new nikah with a new mehr.

(This Talaq-e-baain would always remain as a count of talaq in this given marriage of yours. Having a new nikah with this spouse would not remove it. If your husband pronounces more talaqs, this talaq that was issued via khula would also be part of the count, so act accordingly. Should this marriage be fully terminated, and you later married someone else, then you came back to this given spouse of yours, the matter would be different.)

Kindly consult a scholar in your area for added clarification and greater data sharing.

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