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Islamic QA for North America

January 6, 2009
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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Qibla-how important is it?

Q. My question is regarding salah. I did ask people in the area I was at about the qibla direction. I was given wrong direction. Later I was told of the new direction, must i re-pray the prayers that were done in the wrong direction?

Q. If Allah is everywhere, then how painstaking do I have to get to be with qibla?

Q. Do I have to repeat my salah?

Answer

Point1: There are multiple points that are discussed under the topic of seeking the direction of qibla. The first thing the inquirer must do is ask people that are familiar with directions within a given locality.  Simple information approximating the direction of north, south, etc. would generally suffice.  This step is indeed necessary. Also this process should also be inclusive of a sincere attempt in making sure that the direction that is given to you is indeed correct prior to you performing the salaah.

If whist performing your salaah the correct direction had been made known to you or a person shifts or turns you to the correct direction, you would merely (build upon) continue your prayers in this new direction and the salaah would be valid. Continue Reading →

January 6, 2009
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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Travel prayer

Q. I live in Salt Lake City. I am on vacation in California. When I go back home do I pray musafir prayer or normal prayer?

A. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) bring you back to your abode with safety an ease.

In Islam, all prayer is normal. Musafir salah is called Qasr salah. Salaah at your residence or locality where you reside is called ‘salaah of the Muqeem.’ Muqeem is defined as resident.

Upon arrival to your ‘home,’ you would perform the salaah of the Muqeem, the salah with all is rakats, and not making any of them short as you would do on travel.

Welcome back to you locality with good health — spiritual and physical, Amen.

Allah certainly knows best.

January 5, 2009
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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Its a hairy issue

Asalamulaikum

Q. Hair piece versus wig for men. Can either one of them be worn? Most of the Hadith I see are against woman wearing hairpieces, so does this allow men to wear it? (Answer: See circumstances)

Q. I was told that if the man is willing to take the sin then his wife can wear a wig. Does this seem correct? (Answer: No)

Q. I have hair loss…? Can anything artificial be placed on my head for marriage? I am pretty much bald. I have proof that rejection of proposals did take place due to my hair loss.(Answer: see below for details)

Q. Can one make a wig out of their own hair ?(Answer: No)

Q. Undergoing cancer treatment, can a wig be worn? I was told for treatment is can be used. Correct? Answer: (yes and no, see below as to conditions that apply)

Q. Is it permissible for one, due to circumstances, to wear a wig made from synthetic hair. (Answer: yes to synthetic, but see below as to conditions that apply to wearing of hairpieces and wigs.)

Answer: Walikumus-Salam

May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) make bring ease to all our matters and reward all for their sincere questions which have been forwarded to us over a period of time. We also thank Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) for the patience he has given you all due to the extensive delay is responding. Upon viewing the various ahadith, we are inclined to give an answer abstaining for its usage.

‏حدثنا ‏ ‏محمد بن المثنى ‏ ‏وابن بشار ‏ ‏قالا حدثنا ‏ ‏أبو داود ‏ ‏حدثنا ‏ ‏شعبة ‏ ‏ح ‏ ‏و حدثنا ‏ ‏أبو بكر بن أبي شيبة ‏ ‏واللفظ له ‏ ‏حدثنا ‏ ‏يحيى بن أبي بكير ‏ ‏عن ‏ ‏شعبة ‏ ‏عن ‏ ‏عمرو بن مرة ‏ ‏قال سمعت ‏ ‏الحسن بن مسلم ‏ ‏يحدث عن ‏ ‏صفية بنت شيبة ‏ ‏عن ‏ ‏عائشة ‏
‏أن جارية من ‏ ‏الأنصار ‏ ‏تزوجت وأنها مرضت ‏ ‏فتمرط ‏ ‏شعرها فأرادوا أن ‏ ‏يصلوه ‏ ‏فسألوا رسول الله ‏ ‏صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏ ‏عن ذلك ‏ ‏فلعن ‏ ‏الواصلة ‏ ‏والمستوصلة ‏

Sayyidina Aysha (RA) reports that a woman from the Ansar was married and she became sick and all her hair fell out. They (family) were intending to provide her with false hair. They asked the Rasulullah (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) responded, “Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) has cursed the lady who artificially lengthens (her hair or someone else’s) hair and also the one who gets her hair lengthened. Muslim

‏هشام ‏ ‏عن ‏ ‏فاطمة ‏ ‏عن ‏ ‏أسماء‏
‏جاءت امرأة إلى النبي ‏ ‏صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏ ‏فقالت إن لي ضرة فهل علي جناح أن ‏ ‏أتشبع ‏ ‏من مال زوجي بما لم يعطني فقال رسول الله ‏ ‏صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏ ‏المتشبع ‏ ‏بما لم يعط كلابس ثوبي زور

Sayyidinah Asma’, daughter of Abu Bakr (RA) narrates that a woman came to Rasulullah (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) and said: My husband has another wife, so is it sinful of me to claim that he has given me what he has not given me (seeking permissibility for misrepresentation)?” Rasulullah (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) responded, the one who pretends that he has been given (be it hair, etc) what he has not been given, is just like the (false) one who wears two garments of falsehood. Muslim

‏حدثنا ‏ ‏يحيى بن يحيى ‏ ‏أخبرنا ‏ ‏أبو معاوية ‏ ‏عن ‏ ‏هشام بن عروة ‏ ‏عن ‏ ‏فاطمة بنت المنذر ‏عن ‏ ‏أسماء بنت أبي بكر ‏ ‏قالت ‏
‏جاءت امرأة إلى النبي ‏ ‏صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏ ‏فقالت يا رسول الله إن لي ابنة ‏ ‏عريسا أصابتها حصبة ‏ ‏فتمرق ‏ ‏شعرها أفأصله فقال ‏ ‏لعن الله ‏ ‏الواصلة ‏ ‏والمستوصلة

Sayyidina Asma’, daughter of Abu Bakr(RA), reported that a woman came to Rasulullah (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) and outlined: I have a daughter who has been newly married. She had an attack of smallpox and thus her hair had fallen; should I add false hair to her head? Rasulullah (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) said: Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) has cursed the woman who adds some false hair and the woman who solicits for it. Muslim

Although we only have used three Hadiths, we have made our conclusions based on many more. There are multiple things to take into consideration. The ahadith mentioned are utilized by us are found in numerous books, for example, in the works of Imaams Ahmad, Muslim, Bukari, etc. The succinct points which cause for rulings that pertain to wigs and hairpieces are based on some of the following points which must be reflected upon to understand the issue better. The critical points linked to the above questions are as follows:

Understanding the pulse of the rulings:

  • A married is brought forth to Rasulullah (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam). From other ahadeeth we learn that if a husband makes a request to his legitimate wife, then a woman should follow the request so long as there is Islamic validity to the request. The requested action must conform to the sharia. If the request does not conform to her idea of what is ‘normal,’ an unbiased pious judge (or mufti or learned scholar on the issue) must agree with her so as to accept her decline of a certain motion. Rasulullah (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) wanted couples to be content, and thus many martial rules are in actuality exist to help couples, even if we may think otherwise. Simply illustrated, a woman cannot keep optional fast without prior consent of her husband, due to certain relational needs that may cause hindrance to the relationship. Rasulullah (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) desire was not about female servitude, it was about helping relationships thrive. Quran is filled with such examples, and so is ahadith.
  • From the above ahadith, we learn that the woman were married, she was brought forth by her family, which also means they possibly wanted her to have hair on her head for beautification; another Hadith makes clear that sometimes a spouse may have a preference for long hair; despite such requests, Rasulullah (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) declined the appeal despite the unlimited possibilities of perceived potential harm to relationship. For example, her husbands marrying another woman, her being divorced as a lack for fulfilling the ‘ideal’ societal appeal, etc. Despite these possible concerns, she was still denied the right to what may resemble a hairpiece. There must a reason we are unaware of to illustrate its refusal in deen (religion).
  • We can ascertain that if the Hadith proves that if a woman is denied the right to a hairpiece and/or wig, then most certainly a man would be denied that right for the purposes of seeking a spouse. (Imaam Shafee disagrees with this as outlined below.)

§As far as attracting a spouse for marriage is concerned, two issues must be mentioned:

§ If a person wears a hair piece to attract someone with it, as in a hook and bait strategy, the hadith is clear that such an action is deceptive. Such deception is haram in Islam. Be it via hairpiece, or other forms of misrepresentation that would affect the relationship adversely. Should a person be willing to make clear the changes they have made to their ‘ornaments’ then the matter would be different. Such clarity should obviously be brought out only in discrete terms so as to safe guard the integrity of all parties.

§ If a person knows that they are bald or balding, and still married that person regardless of such outward ‘defect,’ then the issue of hairpiece would not apply.

  • Should a person seek medical justification for hairpiece/wig usage, had the word ‘illness’ not existed (repeatedly) in the ahadith, the matter would be easy to resolve. To ignore a word of hadith can be detrimental. The prohibition was linked to a medical condition. The word مرضت makes that very clear.
  • As far as using ones natural hair in concerned, as determined from the Ahadith of a man wanting his wife to have long hair, despite the woman being married and the husband having a desire for it from his halal wife, Rasulullah (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam)did not allow her to be dressed in such falsities. Note, if Rasulullah (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) did not allow her to wear false hair, then absolutely the issue of real hair, even if it belongs to oneself cannot take place. A subtle fine point to note is that in genuine Islam, once a man cuts his hair, it must be disposed of in a respectful manner. It is only during the Hajj can a woman cut her hair, and that too in limited quantity.

  • Other Hadith also make clear, that for a woman to use extension like hair products are clearly forbidden, Again, if it is forbidden for woman who sometimes function to beautify themselves, for men it would be impermissible to wear such ornamentation as well.

So what’s the ruling by the great Imaams:

The irony of modern day rulings are that the hairpiece and similar articles are allowed for woman, when above Hadith indicate that woman were the ones told not to wear it perplexes us most!!! In respect of the great mujtahids, their great wisdom has shed some critical points to this topic.   They have noted unanimously that:

  • Synthetic hairpieces and wigs are allowed under conditions of extreme need as outlined by the great imaams (May Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala continue to bless them and all those that love the people of good, Ameen.)

o Imaam Abu Hanifas student Imaam Abu Yusuf allows for its permissibility. Thus, the Ahnaf allow for its permissibility in conditions of medical treatment.

o Imaam Shafee makes a more subtle point. He allows it for a man that is already married. His response indicates that since the hadith is clear that woman cannot wear it, a man can do so only for his wife! Thus, this wearing of a synthetich hairpiece should be confined to the home, since ones wife can only derive benefit from her husband within the privacy of the home enviroment.  (However, as outlined, if woman are more into beauty then a man, then in reality, a wearing of a wig for men would only be santioned only under strict conditions of shared intimacy, etc.)

o Imaam Malik has clearly forbidden its usage, for the Hadith and arguments against its usage are very clear.

o Hambalies are with the like Malikies and have the word ‘disliked, reprehensible’ used as well regarding its usuage.

The facts in a nut shell:

  • All scholars agree that wigs and hairpieces made from natural hair is prohibited.
  • All agree that in general circumstances it should not be worn by Muslims.
  • All agree that it cannot be used as trickery.
  • Most agree that it can be traded unless it is made out of synthetic fiber. And all agree that its consumer should be non-Muslims for the purposes of using it as personal ornamentation.
  • Difference as to its usage for medicals reasons does exist. An allowance has been made for patients undergoing treatment that facilitated hair loss.  The Hadith we use prove for its prohibition even under medical conditions, however, an allowance has been made under these circumstances.

And thus our answer is as follows:

Since enormous clarity does exist regarding the general consensus that hairpieces and wigs are prohibited in Islam, it should not be used. Ahadith sanction such a response. As for those suffering health conditions, it is best to abstain from its usage even under medical conditions, as mentioned by our Rasulullah (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam).Wearing it under medical concerns however would not make it haram.

Allah certainly knows best.

January 2, 2009
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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Generational Change of Barack Obama

Generational Change of Barack Obama, by Muhammed S. Mehtar

as shared to reporter Albert Jones of The Daily Times

The majority of Muslims in the United States were pleased to campaign resourcefully and successfully, and remain proud to have been part of sharing in the historic vote for the agent of positive change. President Barack Obama’s ideas invigorated the majority in comparison to his contemporaries. Such sentiments are shared within the US and abroad, be it amongst the allies of the United states or her foes.

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January 1, 2009
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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best to clip when clean

Q. Old people have some strange habits. We must cut our nails only after a bath. is this correct?

A. It is makruh (disliked, not preferred) to clip the nails or to remove ANY hair while one is in a state of major impurity. (Fatwa Aalamgiri.) If you are not in the state in major impurity,  then it would not be makruh for you to cut your nails.

It is also good to cut the nails during the hours of the day, as opposed to the night.

In this day an age we all want proofs. Although we are glad you have shared your question with us, we must realize that older folks may not be able to give you the proof of everything. A lack of proof does not mean they lack validity in their claims. When we see that they are not violating a religious injunction, then it such a situation it would help to listen to them. However, we are just as glad to clarify such issues for you as well.

Allah certainly knows best.

December 30, 2008
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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Jihad your own desires man(sic)!!!

Q. Islam mentions jihad for Muslims. Will Muslims all be punished for not going to Jihad?

A. All major religions have within them the concept of  ‘Jihad.’ Each may outline it differently, but Jihad does exist for all.  Some religions have defined jihad in a limited manner, so as to include only war like and related behavior. Islam being the religion of peace and perfection defines Jihad in accordance to the natural worldview. The Muslim definition has never been limited to killing, rather  it is inclusive of a person doing good deeds and taking on the challenge of abstaining from wrongful actions. Thus, Islam states: the best jihad is a struggle against the self. Doing good deeds at all times.

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December 28, 2008
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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Discrimination? NEVER in red white and blue…no no no

d i s c r i m e i n a t i o n

A Muslimah shares a piece of her college paper

O You who believe! Be upholders of justice, bearing witness for God alone, even against yourselves or your parents and relatives. Whether they are rich or poor,Allah is well able to look after them. Do not follow your own desires and deviate from the truth. If you twist or turn away, Allah is aware of what you do. (Qur’an, 4:135)

While I was browsing through the various topics, naturally I had a lot of issues to choose from.  Trying to narrow down the topics was hard, since we all have had some sort of acquaintance with a number of topics within my field.  After reading through the books on discrimination, I realized this is the topic I wanted to choose.

Although I was very young when Operation Desert Storm occurred, my family remembers it vividly.  During the days after it began, neighbors would release their dogs from their leashes when they would see my uncle coming home from work three miles away, letting their dog’s chase him.  Being an environmentalist, riding his bicycle to and from work became a problem, more so when boys in the neighborhood would intimidate him on their bicycles and stone throws.  For obvious reasons, until the war was over, my uncle felt safest at home, and stopped going out unless he was accompanied with my parents or other siblings, so as to create group strength.  The negative reactions didn’t stop there though, as we would leave the house, and return to find our windows had been egged.  As the war came to an end, so did the hateful acts.

Then the attacks on September 11th took place, and with due anticipation the reaction was negative, but surprisingly it only lasted a minimal time.  On September 12th, I received a call from a former home economics teacher whose classes I hadn’t attended for several months, inquiring whether I would like to attend a class that she was holding that day.  I decided to attend, figuring it would be nice to be with others and being American myself I shared in the pain.  To my shock, when I got there, I was faced with questions like “Is your father strict?” and “are you forced to do things you don’t like?” in front of others by the teacher.

Needless to say, being thirteen years old, I was in my teenage mode, where nobody could force me into anything, so naturally I adamantly defended my clothing and parents.  During the immediate days following the attacks, Muslims were not the only group to be targeted, as the Sikh community found themselves under attack due to their similar appearance.  A Sacramento temple had reported vandalism, Sikh schoolchildren were harassed by classmates, and other Sikhs had been verbally threatened. (Stammer, 2001) To my relief, the people around me quickly realized that not all Muslims shared the same views as those who perpetrated the tragic events, and I was less discriminated against.

Learning more about what causes discrimination and hate helped me understand the perspective of the opposite person.

It also opened my eyes in the respect that I realized how close minded we cause ourselves to become at times.

In order to live with the world around us that is positive and more peaceful it is logically expected that we need to look at ourselves, and fix the slip ups we constantly make.

Instead of living in our boxes which are tightly shut, we need to realize it is safe to take a step out of the box and embrace the world around us. Share our core Islamic values in a manner that shares our true American Muslim identity. Share our concerns without compromising neither our religion nor the great ideals of America….

Do you have a story you would like to share?

Or are you tucked away in a cute little well cushioned box?

As always, comments welcome

December 28, 2008
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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Does pronunciation matter?!

Q. Does poor tajweed invalidate salah?

Answer: It all depends on the type of mistake that is/has being made. If the mistake is such that it changes the meaning of the word and the change is of such a degree that it causes Kufr, or the error changes the meaning so as to accuse Allah (Subhanahu wa ta’ala) of saying something He has never ever stated whilst committing Kufr, then it such an instance, the salah would have to be repeated.

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December 24, 2008
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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Because there’s no bad place for a diamond

Q. Is a nose piercing for a tiny stud on the nose allowed?

A. There are two types of nose piercing and placing of ‘jewelry’ upon the nose:

1. One type is that type that does not violate the normal senses of a normal person. Such piercings and ‘tiny studs’ are allowed. So long as it does not cause self-mutilation, nor is its function to gain attention.  While this practice should be done in an appealing manner, it would be prohibited for one to take part in this practice or wear it so as to stand out to gain attention as a result of ones display of sensuality to strangers.

2.
The second type of piercing is purely forbidden. The forbidden type is usually found in tattoo stores. They exist to demean the beauty of a culturally and Islamically refined human. One’s normal senses and healthy Islamic mental state and upbringing should guide them to distinguish between the hideous and the accepted.

Allah certainly knows best.

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