Q: We are butting heads and its getting frustrating in our home. It like prewedding battel zone. Its like i dont want to get married anymore. I am female and i want to have a simple wedding. My dad wants to take out a loan. My inlawas want you  to be the judge. Imam (muhammad) Shoayb please answer this: Where is the best place to have our wedding?  Time? Based on Sunnah.  What is the Islamic wedding greeting? ( i am not asking how to perform the nikah or marriage certificate details. I know where to get all that) (text)

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• The best nikah is a simple nikah (miskaat shareef.) The best Nikah is the one that is coupled with the least amount of extravagance, wastage and resemblance to non-Islamic practices

• The best place to have your nikah is the musjid

• The best time would be after Asr on Friday
• Having people does not mean that they all have to be fed a special meal. Those that are poor should not be embarrassed, nor is it the duty of the less fortunate to take out loans to fulfill this sunnah
• The meal can be simple. There is no Islamic requirement of specified dishes coupled with specific requirements of matching curtains and table  clothes and flowers to that of a given persons attire, etc.
• That which is built on sunnah can only get stronger. Sunnah has in it the appeal of simplicity as well as quality