Questions:
salamz Moulana
I have a few question regarding relationship, that I hope you be able
to answer for me as soon as you are able to.
1)What does Islam say on the husband defending the wife, when someone is creating a whole lot of lies?
2) What are the rights of a wife from her husband who is working somewhere else?
3) How long in Islam should a man be away from his wife?
4) Should the husband provide for his wife a contact detail?
5) What is the statues of a husband who tells people how to behave
with their wife, and he does the total opposit?
6) What does Islam say of a man who denies he is married?
7) What does Islam say regarding a man who refuses to call his wife to live with him having no Islamic reason?
9) What does Islam say about a husband lying on his promises to his wife?
10) What does Islam say about a man looking for divorce finding no reason other then his naafs?
11) Does Islam give a man the right to want a divorce, WITH NO VALID REASON?
12) What does Islam say about a man, looking for a way out of his marriage, when there IS NO REASON FOR THAT?
Forgive for the many questions, I have been collecting my questions
for some weeks, and thought I send them altogether.

Waasalam

Date: Wed, Jul 8, 2009   Subject: Relationship

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A1. If it is proven that a wife if innocent, then she must be defended. To not defend the honor of any person when one has the ability to do so is cowardly. It is against the grain of commanding good, and prohibiting evil. (Ayah)

A2. It would depend on the agreement between the spouses. Rights can be negotiated, a woman can be awarded greater right just as she can relinquish part of her rights.

A3. A man and woman should not be separated without a valid reason. More so if there is a possibility of adultery, etc.  There separation would depend upon their given agreement. (also see A.2)

A4. If she is alone, should emergency arise, she must be able to contact him or those appointed to fulfill her halaal emergencies/requests. This substitute could include her family,  her in-laws or an appointed appropriate guardian.

A5. He is in conflict with the quran. One cannot command well and do its opposite. (ayah) This is the trait of a munafiq. (derived from quran and hadith) May Allah (SWT) guide us all, and save us from such disrepute, Ameen.

A6. For a man to deny his wife the position of marriage under normal voluntary condition  negates the nikah if he has intended it as such. If he said she is not his wife and meant it with the intent of divorce, then they are divorced! If he did not mean divorce, then the marriage remains intact. (we are not opposing western law, the matter in a western court would be different.)

A7. He is violating his rights towards her. He is worthy of blame in the case of not having a valid reason.

A8. (You missed number 8 and went to number nine! At this point, we are forced to state: a person not knowing how to count calls for us to make a disclaimer: ‘the answers are only to the questions posed. It is not placing blame on either of the spouses. We hope it was a mere lapse and nothing more.)

A9. If it is proven that he is a liar. That makes him a possible fasiq (transgressor) and fajir (criminal if proven as such). His testimony would lose credibility in the sight of Muslims on certain Religious matters.

A10. He is committing the most wretched act in the Eyes of Allah (Subhanahu Wata’Ala).

A11. Yes. But an abhorrent action is indeed being committed.

A12. See 11 and 12

Allah certainly Knows Best.