Q: Salaam, my wife have relation with her ex friend when i was out country, even it contnued when i came back, now she want to seperated with me, i have baby, i really broken now,
i dont what to do,
but she she still talks with in normal way.
I need to take decision.
please advice.

A: Walaikumsalam,

You choices would be as follows:

Forgive her. If you choose to forgive and be with her, then you must heal and not let it affect you. This is hard for people to do. But love can make it happen.

or

Divorce her. Continue to take care of your child. Be as nice as you can to those around you. Again, not easy to do, but it can be achieved if done with sincerity.

May Allah (SWT) make it easy for you, ameen.

Allah Certainly Knows Best.