Q:Assalam walaicum….I have a question regarding mariege.I love this grl n the grl loves me as well…From my family my mom likes the grl alot but the grl i like her father doesn’t wanna agree for the wedding with me n the grl tells me to marry her cause she is scared that her father won’t agree cause i don’t have college degree…What should i do, should i marry her without informing her dad will it be ok according to islam ?She is 24 n i m 28 pls let me know asap,
Time: Tuesday August 23, 2011 at 4:22 pm

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I am lost as to your question. let me say this general rule:
If you both can abstain from adultery and there is no possibility of haram, then in such a case, if her father does not want you to marry her, then leave her alone and move on with your life.
If you feel adultery is to take place, nikah would your best option.
Allah Certainly Knows Best.