Q: I love a girl who loves another guy who loves another girl.  She does not even glance at me. The guy she loves doesn’t even look at her.   How do i approach her uncle for her? (text)

A: You are walking in dangerous territory. Experience has shown us, pursuing a woman that loves another man (other than the man that loves her) only creates problems. Love is too precious than fighting for it. Our advice, stay away from her and find a person that would reciprocate the love you willing to share.

Ask your family (uncles, aunts, etc) to find you a respectable woman for marriage.

Allah Certainly Knows Best.

Often, men (or woman) that try to win woman (or men) over pay a steep price. S/he knows you are weak and desperate, people don’t like people that come across as desperate. Pursing such a person would often hurt than help you.