Q1: i really love a person n he loves me too.we both want to marry but my mother doesn’t like him because she think his face is unattractive..in this case we both want to marry not by escaping from home but by concealing this from parents..we both want a sacred relation marrying each other. a hesitation also working in my mind..what should i do? is it jayej in islam having married in this way?
Time: Tuesday December 25, 2012 at 8:59 am
Q2:as salam alikum ….ALHUMDULLLILAH im Muslim ( Sunni ) i wants to marry a boy Muslim ( Sunni ) his parents are not agree bcz my parents my father Pakistani n my mother Indian bcz of this reason they are nt agree …n that boy had already told them that he want to marry me several times but after that they are never agree now he is thinking to marry me n keep me separate frm his family also he is not happy with his family bcz they always force him to do what they want now he is plan to start other work n will stay separate frm them what to do plss advice me….thank you jazak ALLAH khair……..
Time: Sunday March 17, 2013 at 1:33 am
Q3: assalamu alaikum
i am muslim youth from india, i am fall in love with a muslim girl, but our family is not interested our relation. i wanna marry her,
so what should i do ?
shall i marry her without her parents perision?
Time: Sunday February 24, 2013 at 5:56 am
Answer: Walaikumsalam,
Try to abstain from such a marriage. If you both are inclined towards zina, ask your parents to find both of you spouses. If this is impossible for your parents to accomplish and you both feel zina would be committed, then to avoid zina, do get married between yourselves. Do inform your parents as to why you are doing waht you are doing. If you feel violence may come your way, then do at least inform appropriate representatives of your community.
Allah Certainly Knows Best.