Q: Assalamualaykum.. I m a married before 3 years. we have one child. but before we get married my loved somone else seriously n she wanted marry with him.. but somehow she was unable tell her parents..n get get married with me..but she was not happy with me as a bride..i was surpriced..after few days of ignorance she told me that she had a boyfriend. n seriously loved him..then i asked her what about now..then she replied now everything is n nomore contacts with him..she show me some gifts given by him to her..then i asked where r the gifts i gave u..then she told me it was lost..i feel jealousy…after about a month there were some conflict between us because of her ignorance then she didnt receive my call for 1 day..n when i asked she told me she was unable to receive mobile was in her purse..so checked if called somone during that time n i found she sent around 50 sms during that time..than i cheked detail for that month ,,i was shocked there r 695 sms to him within 20 days..then i call that guy n shout at him that time she told me with anger dont shout at him shout at me..i was realy shocked wht is going on..then i again ask her if u wish to go with him i ll give u divorce..even i called that guy also..but i think they afraid of society…then agai i forgive her..n told not to do this again..but after sometime she again send mms on valentine day..i feel too much pain..may be their relationship is with pure love but what about me..they never think about this..i didnt want to leave her without her wish..actually she wish but didnt tell me clearly..now she is telling no more contancts with him dont have any proof of that..but she ignored me too much even for the sex also thats why my heart is full of sorrow jealousy..everything ike respect love al things i received from her only after i asked for that.for last 11/2 there is no proof .. but now what should i do to end this sorrow n jealousy n doughts..

A: Walaikumsalam,

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