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Islamic QA for North America

February 22, 2024
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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Stand after sitting – My way or the high way!

Question: Salams, the following was posted on our musjid board and one of the sisters who I will call sister Mimi said that this is incorrect, quoting some hadtih which we cannot remember, that if one can stand, they must stand even after sitting due to the person not being able to stand. So, like, if I cannot do sajdah, I am sit when the imam goes down, then stand up again when the imam stands up. Here it goes, is this correct. I use the word He but it is also for woman fyi?

1) The Jurists have mentioned that if someone is unable to perform sajda (prostration) during salat, then the following rulings apply to him:

– Qiyaam (standing posture) is not obligatory on him

–  He will perform the ruku’ (bowing down) and sajda (prostration) by gesture — i.e. by movement of the head — in such a way that the gesture for sajda is lower than the gesture for ruku’.

A person who is able to stand (make Qiyaam) but cannot make sajda has the following options:

He may perform the entire salat — including the gestures for ruku’ and sajda –standing up

He may perform the qiyam and ruku’ standing up and then sit down to perform the gesture for sajda

He may perform the entire salat — including the gestures for ruku’ and sajda — sitting down

From the three options mentioned above, the Jurists have stated that the last option (to perform the entire salat in a sitting posture) is best.

Answer:

The information you have provided is accurate and is derived from authoritative sources such as Darul Mukhtar and the Sharah of Noor ul Idah, which are well-known books of fiqh and fatwa. To establish credibility, it would be advisable for the sister to reference these major authors. Their understanding of the hadith is comprehensive, as it is based on Quranic verses, Hadith, and Qiyas (analogical reasoning).

Regarding the specific point about standing after sitting, while it is permissible for a person to do so, it is important to note that the preferred option, as indicated in the bolded text above, is to sit back down. This is because it is closer to the position of sujood (prostration). It would be incorrect to refute this point, especially in the context where a person is unable to make sujood.

Therefore, it is recommended to follow the guidance provided by these esteemed scholars — Author of Darul Muktar and view the Sarah of Noor ul Idah. If the sister is seeking a religious perspective, explaining the concept of ‘aqrab ilas sujood’ (closest to sujood) to her may help her reconsider her response.

Both opinions are correct, the one we outline is more preferred, for it is in line with the above reference shared. One should try not to give responses that are just ‘theirs,’ try to cling onto the aslaf to limit deviation and confusion. Best to give all opinions on a matter and also share what is most preferred.

Allah Certainly Knows Best.

February 5, 2024
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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Wash, wipe or wet-wipes?

Question: Assalamualaikum sheikh, I hope you and your family are doing well. My wife is pregnant. She is having a hard time bending or lifting her feet to be able to perform wudu. At home she is able to use the bathtub or shower but when traveling how could she perform wudu? What are her options? If I am traveling with her for example on an airplane, if she went to bathroom and did all except washing her feet and came back to her seat to then use a small amount of water to run water over her feet? Or perhaps me rubbing the water over her feet when she gets back to her seat?

Answer: Walaikumsalam, 

May Allah (swt) bless you both with a wonderful pious child(ren), ameen.

  1. While performing whudu with ease can be challenging, when there is no injury preventing water from reaching the feet, washing the feet is given priority. Consider using a water bottle to pour water over the feet without causing impure water to splash back. This should be the primary option. Many have used this option.
  2. Washing the feet separately after completing whudu, particularly if everything else has already been washed and wiped would invalidate the ablution due to the sequential lapse. It is important to wash the feet as part of the initial whudu process. If she does not wipe her face, hands etc and then poured water over her feet, this would function as a complete whudu. Should this be a challenge, your wife can do as she pleases, however, upon arrival of her destination, merely repeat that given salah with its proper whudu.
  3. A better solution if number 1 is a challenge: Consider using the non-water permeable ski socks after the morning ablution. This would allow her to merely wipe over it, instead of washing the feet. Although traditional leather socks are preferable, scholars allow flexibility with the use of non-water permeable ski socks, especially under certain circumstances.
  4. As a last resort, if a sincere Muslim doctor indicates potential harm from bending down during whudu, your wife may resort to the wiping method while at work. I would still recommend a person to repeat this prayer, especially if the wiping was done over the regular everyday socks that people wear. Alternatively, at home when you are present, assisting her in washing her feet will be a commendable option.
  5. It has become fashionable for some scholars to grant leeway in merely wiping over regular everyday socks. I would recommend them to view the book from which fatwa are derived with the proofs originating from Quran and Hadith for the author — Radul Mukhtar.
  6. Your sincere and genuine question reflects your commitment to this great pillar of Islam. May it serve as a guiding light for your beautiful child(ren). The positive actions a mother and father takes during pregnancy and early child-rearing profoundly impact the child’s future.

Allah Certainly Knows Best.

January 26, 2024
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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Hajj for dollars

Q: please clariffy for me, i heard that woman of 35 does not need a mahram and can go for hajj alone, some say 40, some 45, what is correct? My cousin went at 25 from college. Many groups take woman alone. Some hajj directors say they old so even they men they can become the mahram for the woman. Its so confusing. Help clearify.

A: The requirement for a woman to have a mahram (a male relative, like a father, brother, or husband, etc.) when performing Hajj has been considered the safest opinion. It’s important to note that Hajj is not a holiday; rather, it is a religious requirement with associated laws. All scholars agree that it is recommended and considered more appropriate for a woman to have a mahram when undertaking the pilgrimage, upon her qualifying to do so. This is viewed as the most virtuous course of action, serving as a safety measure and a means of providing support and guidance during the journey, all of which are religiously sanctioned.

Some scholars who have provided an age at which a woman can go alone also should emphasize the additional conditions associated with it. They correctly also suggest that if a woman travels without a mahram, she should be in the company of older women in the group who are modest, fulfill other religious requirements related to but not merely only limited to age, and ensure there is no possibility of fitna (temptation or discord). Therefore, it is not solely an age-related issue but also encompasses other aspects that must be taken into account.

No, a mere old man cannot just become a mahram for woman going for hajj. I have NEVER seen a fatwa with Quranic references or hadith allowing for this, more so, without extenuating circumstances.

In light of these considerations, individuals are encouraged to reflect on whether Allah (SWT) has made Hajj obligatory for them and, if so, under what conditions. It’s essential to consider the safest opinion in religion. Regarding Umrah and Hajj groups, as a sign of Qiyamah, they appear to fulfill the dollar requirement for Hajj operators than sharia requirements. 

May Allah (SWT) protect everyone.

Allah Certainly Knows Best.

January 26, 2024
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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Feed a Date or a Camel, or Sheep

Q: i am a little confused, i was told for any mistake at hajj we must do damm (sacrifice an animal.) Today i hear sheik say we are told it is giving dates, i am confused.
A:Hajj stands as one of the Five Pillars of Islam, holding profound significance for Muslims. The pilgrimage involves a meticulous process with specific rituals, demanding careful attention and precision.

When errors occur during the rituals of Hajj, depending on the violation, some violations advocate the sacrifice of an animal, while others suggest fasting or providing sustenance to the less fortunate. The specific actions required hinge on the nature of the mistake and the doctrinal nuances within Islam. All errors do not entail one to slaughter an animal.

The notion of using dates as a form of expiation, as in the case of a person experiencing minor hair follicle loss during Hajj, demonstrates that since this was a small error, the consequences too would not be as severe. This ruling is distinct from major violations committed during the pilgrimage. May Allah (SWT) reward the scholar that helped with this ruling at the timeof Hajj in Makkah.)

For precise and tailored guidance on specific situations, it is advisable to seek counsel from a knowledgeable religious scholar that is experienced in the laws of Hajj. Contacting an experienced individual in the field of Hajj is crucial for obtaining accurate information tailored to your specific circumstances. I appreciate your dedication to seeking clarification.

Allah Certainly Knows Best.

January 24, 2024
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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Commanding good and forbidding evil has to be done also in a good way

Q: Shiek Salamalaikum, we have a saying in our culture, what ever your husband tells you to do you must do. The sin will be on him so it does not matter. And we do it. I am not comfortable with some of these wants. What if he tells us to do a haram. Shukran

A: Walaikumsalam,

Embracing a commitment to resist wrongdoing signifies a strong foundation of imaan. For this quality you are blessed. Equally important is the principle of not imposing one’s religious beliefs on others is also an integral aspect of imaan. Nurturing the imaan of your partner is also a noteworthy part of one’s faith. Prioritizing adherence to what is right and just becomes paramount in upholding one’s Islamic values. Withstanding such information, commanding what is good and forbidding what is evil is clearly what Allah (SWT) expects of every Muslim. Yet, these commands must also be followed in a dignified manner with knowledge and wisdom.

Thus, it is essential to acknowledge that not every type of wrong is straightforwardly categorized as haram, and conversely, not every halal thing may be universally beneficial in every situation. In light of this nuanced understanding, and not knowing your situation, I highly recommend seeking guidance from your local scholar. Such consultation allows for a comprehensive and personalized assessment of your unique circumstances, enabling you to pursue a righteous and well-informed course of action tailored to your specific situation and relationship.

Allah Certainly Knows Best.

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January 24, 2024
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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woman – nail polish and henna

Q: Why is nail coloring not allowed for woman? Why do some woman only use it when in woman’s cyle? jazakallah

A: I have not seen any ruling prohibiting a woman from coloring her nails. Some have prohibited her display of it in public before men, but never has its usage been prohibited.

The discussion revolves around the permeability of substances applied to the nails. Henna is considered permissible because water seeps through it, allowing Wudu to be complete even when henna is applied.

On the other hand, nail polish raises concerns as there is evidence that water does not penetrate it, invalidating Wudu. Consequently, individuals holding this belief may choose to use nail polish only when Wudu is not obligatory upon them, or removing it at the time of Whdu.

Side note: It is important for women to recognize the privacy associated with certain matters. If a woman limits the use of nail polish to specific times, such as during her menstrual cycle, and this becomes widely known, it compromises her privacy. However, this does not disallow its usage.

Allah Certainly Knows Best.

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January 21, 2024
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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Eye lashers to MnM’s

Q: Salams, My sister is getting nikah. Just for the nikah can a person wear fake eye lashers? Also is M&M haram? JAK

A: Walaikumsalam,

-So long as it is not made from human or pig fibers, it can be worn. Please consult with a doctor before placing things on your eyes!

-Red MnMs are to be abstained from. Under ideal conditions, just do not eat any of it. However, the red one has an ingredient of an insect that has called for its non-consumption as per Islamic halal rules. Please also contact the company directly to see if this has changed.

Allah Certainly Knows Best.

January 20, 2024
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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Firm and tough and rough or just plain nice?!

Q: Asalamualikum, With all respect, xxxx I wanted to let you know that I limit my conversation with men only on necessary meter. I don’t appreciate any man remarks on my clothes or any other unnecessary comments. This the etiquette of Islam. Thanks for understanding.
A: Walaikumsalam:
Thank you for your message. I intent to be transparent in my response, and i seek clarification within my religious thought process. First-off, I would like to address a concerning implication in the statement made: “I limit my conversation with men only on necessary matters. I don’t appreciate any male remarks on my clothing or any other unnecessary comments.” This could imply that unwarranted comments were made towards you or other women by possible men at our institution or even myself. Such implications can be misleading and are a form of unwarranted implied Buhtan (false accusation/defamation). I trust in Allah’s (SWT) protection for all, ameen.

If one does not prefer to be acknowledged, they should dress as women did at the time of Rasool (SAW). As anyone with even limited Islamic historical knowledge is aware, the practice of some of Sahabiya (women at the time of the Rasool (SAW)) wore black in such a manner so as to not only make them unrecognizable to the opposite gender but also it is said, they resembled themselves to that of ‘crows’ in a setting that they would be seen by men other than mahram. One color, similar design in outfit and presentation of it, etc. Kindly refer to the latter part of the 21st Juzz and the onset of the 22nd juzz of the Quran for more detail. Please do not think that I am promoting or not promoting this possible approach of yours. However, your message implies that this may be the environment you are seeking, and if such, living in an environment such as the USA gives people such choices, we should be respectful of those seeking it.

In discussing your text, I approach this academically and respectfully, primarily from an Islamic perspective. Let’s set aside discussions related to Islam momentarily, particularly in terms of “etiquette of Islam.” Having studied and been part of teaching religion, we understand that etiquette encompasses various components, including internal aspects linked to Sharia, Quran, Hadith, and Sunnah, as well as environmental considerations aka Urf. Addressing both components is crucial when dealing with Islam, and I aim to address this matter accordingly:

  1. Let us first discuss the setting in which this all occurred: Public setting after a sharia based discussion and upon its conclusion in the presence of other people.
  2. In the context of compliments regarding clothing, the comment was made in the presence of what our community considers “mature adults.” As a senior respected teacher of religion, you may have observed that others were also wearing jackets, but their jackets were shorter, and none of them were complemented. Could it be that your coat fulfilled the traditional qualities of dawah, serving as a positive example for the religion, children, and fellow teachers? Rather than acknowledging this positive aspect, a request implying otherwise was presented by you, with multiple underlying tones. A comment such as ‘that is a nice coat’ in a non-suggestive vocal tone and in the presence of mature adults to a mature, well-married woman in hijab is by no means haram. However, I welcome corrections if my understanding is incorrect, as it contributes to my learning.
  3. If someone opts not to seek acknowledgment, particularly in a mixed-gender setting, it’s advisable for them to align their behavior accordingly. Otherwise, they may naturally receive acknowledgments, such as greetings or other social gestures. This is an inherent aspect of human interactions. Additionally, in the Quran and Hadith, there are instances where the Prophet (SAW) complimented women, men, and children with dignity, honor, and respect. Purposefully engaging in actions to seek compliments might be associated with pride and self-admiration. Criticizing someone for offering a compliment, especially when the recipient did nothing to intentionally attain it, raises questions about the motivation behind one’s attire choices. Further, criticizing the one giving the compliment and attempting to regulate someone else’s behavior, while religion allows for such niceties without compromising religious principles, may be perceived by some as unintentional spiritual arrogance — even though not intended — unless the inquiry genuinely sought religious proof for a specific behavior.
  4. We both agree that commenting on appropriate clothing in a private or flirtatious manner is inappropriate and haram, as it creates awkwardness and discomfort and allows the agents of Shaytan to send forth his snares, which by no means is what occurred.

Alhamdulillah, you are a respectable person from an accredited institution. Kindly have the above inquiry and response reviewed for a line-by-line correction by your senior teachers and fatwa department. This way, we can keep this as a learning experience that builds rather than breaks our Imaan and community.

JazakAllah Khair for your thoughtful and sincere engagement on this matter. May Allah (SWT) bless you and all the good work you do for the sake of Allah (SWT), InshaAllah, ameen.

Allah Certainly Knows Best.

January 20, 2024
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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Interfaith 4 Q’s

Q1: If Shahada is a central tenet and one of the five pillars, why does it not exist in the Koran in the same form? (they are isolated sentences). Is it an afterthought?

A: The Shahada and the five pillars, recited and embraced by Muslims or those choosing to embrace Islam, trace their origin to words revealed over a span of 23 years. These words are not exclusive to Islam; rather, they represent the message accepted by every messenger of God, spanning from Adam (AS) to the final messenger, Muhammad (peace be upon him). Embedded in various Quranic verses, these words form a unified declaration of faith in the Oneness of God and the acceptance of Muhammad as His messenger. Being a Muslim involves not only embracing the Quran but also recognizing and accepting Hadith. Thus, it is not an afterthought but a formulation from Quranic teachings and the Prophetic sayings.

For this we must understand: Just how did the Shadah and 5 pillars come out?

  • Gradual responses to events over a period of time.
  • Addressing aspects of life while helping faith holders gain greater closeness to Allah (SWT)
  • Allowing sincere faith expression without a specific Shahada wording.
    Emphasizing God’s oneness, divine guidance and the role of Muhammad (pbuh) in the life of the believer.
  • The formulations aim is in laying down principles like monotheism and prophethood.

Thus, these words were not an afterthought. They serve as foundational principles that individuals were summoned to affirm even before the completion of the revelation.

Q2: What is the hidden book referred to in the Koran? (56.77-80). Is it referring to itself? I would like to know more; it seems it points to another book with divine revelations that can be touched only if purified.

A: The Quran is the only Book known to humanity that is memorized for over 1400 years, preserved and unchanged during this duration of time and remains in its original language.

The “hidden book” mentioned in Surah Al-Waqi’ah (56:77-80) of the Quran is often understood to refer to the “Lawh Al-Mahfuz,” which translates to the “Preserved Tablet” or “Well-Protected Book.” This concept is central in Islamic theology. Some that are opposed to the Quran use phrases such as it referring to a ‘hidden book,’ such a notion is also derived from inaccurate translation of the phrase, Preserved tablet.

Lawh Al-Mahfuz is believed to be a celestial tablet on which Allah has inscribed His decrees and divine knowledge. It is considered a repository of preordained events, including the destiny of individuals. The Quran describes it as a well-protected and preserved book which also includes information about the Quran, the very same Quran that Muslims value and believe was sent down from it to a lower heaven and then dispatched to earth over a period of time.

In the context of the mentioned verses within your inquiry, to avoid confusion between phrases, it also emphasizes that none can touch this Book except those that are purified or those that are seeking to purify themselves — physically and spiritually. This concept signifies that access to divine knowledge and understanding of these decrees requires physical and spiritual purification and adherence to righteousness or the seeking of it.

Q3:Why did Muslims change the direction of prayer? (Qibla from Jerusalem to Mecca). There is no such instruction I can see in the Koran. Maybe I missed something.

A: The change in the direction of prayer, known as the Qibla, from Jerusalem to Mecca is addressed in the Quran in Surah Al-Baqarah (2:144). The initial Qibla was set toward the Sacred Mosque Known as Musjidul Aqsa, but later, it was changed to the Kaaba in Mecca. The specific verse is as follows (translation may vary):

“We have certainly seen the turning of your face, [O Muhammad], toward the heaven, and We will surely turn you to a qiblah with which you will be pleased. So turn your face toward the Sacred Mosque. And wherever you [believers] are, turn your faces toward it [in prayer]. Indeed, those who have been given the Scripture well know that it is the truth from their Lord. And Allah is not unaware of what they do.”

This change in Qibla occurred during the lifetime of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) while he was in worship as a test of faith as a test of faith and allegiance. It also was a test of faith and to distinguish between those who truly followed the Prophet’s guidance.

The specific instruction for the change in Qibla is found in the verse mentioned above. It emphasizes that the turning of the face toward the Sacred Mosque in Mecca is a direction with which the believers will be pleased. This event is a significant aspect of Islamic history and is recorded in the context of the Prophet’s migration from Mecca to Medina.

The change in Qibla serves as a demonstration of the submission and obedience required of the believers in following the guidance and commands of Allah, as conveyed through the Prophet Muhammad.

Q4: What was the reason for the incomplete sentence for Latt and Uzza? (53.19)

A: For Arabic readers of the Quran, its unique style prompts a reflective pause, especially when sentences begin with conjunctions like ‘and.’ This suggests that each sentence, while meaningful on its own, gains depth and emphasis through connection with preceding thoughts and should not always be viewed as only a singular. In the context of verses mentioning Laat, Uzza, and Manat in the next sentence, the arabic letter’ woow’ which mean ‘and’ underscores various types of worship, particularly focused on Laat and Uzza, with Manat not to be overlooked. This structure encourages readers to consider all idols collectively, recognizing that each deity held a distinct relationship with its followers.

Added note to your comment:

Your observation is valid, and seeking “informed answers” can indeed be subjective. It’s important to clarify that by “informed responses,” the intention is typically to encourage thoughtful and well-researched answers that go beyond superficial or commonly known information. However, it’s crucial to recognize that interpretations and perspectives can vary, and what may be considered informed by one person may differ from another’s viewpoint.

My suggestion is for you to kindly consult an interfaith specialist that is also part of the Islamic faith for deeper understanding. Engaging with individuals who have expertise in this area can provide a broader and more nuanced understanding, fostering dialogue and continual mutual respect.

Thank you for reaching out on behalf of your acquaintance.

Allah Certainly Knows Best.

January 16, 2024
by Ml. Muhammed Shoayb
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Can one accept money from pork profits?

Question: Salaam Imam Shoayb. This is xyz. I had a question. In exchange for serving on the advisory board, an acquaintance plans to give me lets say 2 to 5% of ownership in a company. The company earns profits from ads and from formulation of meal plans. Some of the recipes on the website include pork so I was wondering if it’s islamically permissible to accept the 1 or even 2 to 5% ownership in the company?

Answer: Walaikumsalam WRB,

I applaud your inquiry, it demonstrates a commendable level of conscientiousness and a commitment to upholding moral Islamic values — qualities indicative of strong faith (Imaan). Diverse perspectives may be considered in response to your question, with the first being an unequivocal refusal. This perspective stems from the classification of certain substances, like pork as inherently impure (Najisul-Ayn), rendering it to be permanently forbidden (haram) and incapable of ever being declared halal. Consequently, any association with such transactions is deemed forbidden, presenting a conundrum, especially in today’s markets.

I am inclined based on your situation and only your situation to favor the following:

The second response involves a nuanced approach, particularly for individuals contemplating a role as a board member or serving on an advisory board. In such a position, there arises a responsibility to fulfill “Amara bill maroof” – enjoining what is good. This is a duty for every human, especially a Muslim. As an advisor, it becomes your responsibility to represent your faith, values, and company in a balanced and correct manner. We are first muslim, than partners, etc.

Thus, in a non-imposing manner, you are to express your stance on the consumption of pork. This could involve, at least once a year during one major meeting, you acknowledge your adherence to dietary restrictions based on traditional Christian, Jewish, and Islamic principles. However, the decision to comply or not lies with the majority and the company. From an Islamic point of view, doing so may reduce your religious liability, especially considering the percentages you have mentioned.

Furthermore, if a financial payout occurs in the above scenario – for example, a $100 distribution with a $20 contribution from the pork-related aspect – you are advised to deduct the $20, retaining only $80. The deducted amount should then be given away in charity to a poor person, regardless of their faith and without the intention of seeking reward. (Under ideal conditions I would recommend you give it to a poor local Muslim.)

The third option involves a similar role, wherein you articulate your convictions at least once a year, making known what you stand for. In this scenario, you are encouraged to donate all your financial gains to charity – not limited to a mosque but in the form of sadaqa (to any poor person, Muslim, or even non-Muslim) – while relinquishing any intention of seeking reward. By adhering to this 3rd measure, you are taking the most ethical and religious stance given your situation, it also is hoped that Allah (SWT) will, in His benevolence, reward you for choosing the path of utmost righteousness.

Jazakallah Khair for your inquiry.

Allah Certainly Knows Best.